This was brought up by a Viner in the course of a discussion who opined that he felt a lot of women allow a past bad experience to carry vengeful feelings. I would be interested in other womens' take on this. And, if you have been a victim and been badly let down - how do you deal with trust issues into future relationships? How do past experiences pollute the future? And, if you have overcome the trauma, how did you do it?
It also struck me that this could obviously apply to men aswell. Or anyone who has been in a same sex relationship. So I will make it a broad based question to all genders.